A couple of days ago, my friend and I were discussing growing up and how we change with time. As we were having coffee, we discussed how our relationships with our friends changed with time. I have noticed that in my early twenties I have always went with my friends descisions. I have always did what they wanted me to do. Regardless of what I have felt. Now it is a whole different story. I am more comfortable with myself. I keep listening to what my heart and brain tell me. If I feel stressed or tired I would not do any favors or anything for anyone. Just to make sure that I don’t feel worse. Sue me for taking care of myself 😉 The older we get, the more assertive we become. That is what we have concluded from our lengthy discussion. Do you agree?